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Are pets worth it?

[Author’s note:  This is part of a series of writing challenges first proposed to me by Leslie Farnsworth.  Leslie has organized and expanded the challenge to include a larger group of excellent blog writers.  Once per month one member of the group will propose a topic and we will all give our own unique take on the subject.  You may want to look at some of the other bloggers listed below to see what they came up with:

 

First, full disclosure. My last pet died about 17 years ago. Since that time I haven’t even entertained the thought of getting another pet.  I am primarily going to discuss the relationship between humans and cats and dogs as those are the two best known pets species in the world.

So where did pets come from and why do we still have them? Obviously they started as work animals. Additional hands for hunting,  vermin eradicators, guard animals, and occasionally food sources. Practicality was at the core of the decision to keep them but along the way something rare happened.   Mutual affection. Something rare amongst humans let alone between different species.

We became attached to these helpmates that we had created for ourselves and they in turn became attached to us.

So now thousands of years since adopting them for practical purposes and a century or so since they have for the most part dropped their original role we keep them for no other reason than their company.  The average person living in an apartment or condominium has no practical use for a pet.  We no longer hunt for food, herding is done mainly on horseback, and the responsibility for eradicating vermin has for the most part been outsourced to other humans.  So on that basis is it worth it to the average urbanite to keep an animal solely for affectionate purposes?

Humans are unique in the animal world.  We not only suffer physical maladies but we also suffer quite acutely from mental maladies.  Other animals can of course suffer psychologically but not to the level of humans.  Loneliness is a huge problem for humans and can lead to  plethora of mental conditions.  We can become inert and even die from a mental disorder.  One of the best remedial treatments for this is companionship. Animals can fulfill this role quite well.  In fact after thousands of years with humans they have in a figurative sense become bred for the purpose of being companions to humans.

Lap dogs, which once fulfilled roles as vermin hunters, now nestle comfortably indoors for the most part.  Cats, given half a chance, will revert to their hunting past but for the most part are satisfied to explore a home from every angle.  The odd thing is that lapdogs neatly fit the size of a human infant and the exigent meows of a cat are similar in tone and urgency of that of an infant child.

They fulfill the role of surrogate family member for many lonely people and even for people with children.  I have often heard the expression “fur babies” used by humans with regards to their pets.

But does that all make it worth having them in our lives?  Any thoughtful and logical person knows the plain facts.  The average pet will only last around a decade.  Perhaps they may stretch out as much as two decades but the point is that they will die sooner rather than later.  The deep emotional attachment will inevitably lead to sadness and perhaps more when the pet dies.  So knowing that, is it worth investing time, resources, and love for a creature knowing what you know will happen one day?

One might honestly ask the same question about any emotional bond or relationship in life.  In some ways we are short-lived creatures.  On average we spend the first two decades of life preparing for it and the last decade or so preparing to exit life.  In between we have half a century or so to experience what we experience for good or bad.  Naturally the average person wants those experiences to be good but I think that once we reach some point in our lives we understand that some unhappiness is inevitable.

I suppose one could go through life without any emotional attachments to another person or animal and have a perfectly good life.  But to me at least it seems that it would be a somewhat dull and lackluster existence without any of the brilliance and beauty that interacting with others brings to it.

Is there going to be pain?  Of course there is.  Pain is a part of life.  Accepting that there may be pain and proceeding anyways is a mark of someone who embraces life.  Letting pain or the fear of pain dominate you is a sign of retreating  from life.

Pets can be the first friends that we make as children, they can be the only one that understands when life isn’t going well, they can be the last link to the outside world when we slip down the long dark tunnel of dementia in our later years.

Pets are wonderful.

 

My routes

I decided to share my walking and running routes for the past four years.

Mainly this is an excuse to air out my map making skills.  If you ever wondered what geographers do for fun, well…. this isn’t it.  I was using my mapping tools at work when this idea for a blog popped up in my mind.  By the way if you don’t have it yet, get Google Earth.  it’s a great little mapping tool.  Very easy to use and the basic version is free.

I started out with a mind-blowing 1-mile walk at night.  It took me half an hour and I came back sweating and breathing hard but it was a start.

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Then I “discovered” Hershey park and upped my game to 2 and a half miles of walking.  I would drive to the park and walk the route and within a month I had torn some tissue in my hip.  Any attempt at running was painful to say the least.  So I had to walk this route for 6 months.

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My next progression was walking to the park rather than driving.  Up to 4 miles now but still walking.  Taking a few short sprints here and there and testing out my hip.

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I hate taking the same route up and then back so for my next step up I completed a loop round the park.  Up to five miles now.  Still mostly walking but jogging here and there putting together a half mile here, a quarter-mile there.  Eventually segments would merge together.  One nondescript Saturday morning I took a chance and ran the whole course.  I actually did a victory loop at the end.

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My daily run has now settled to about six and half miles.  I keep a couple of different routes to keep from getting bored.

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If I wake up late I use my “emergency” route.  A quick 4 mile course that I can finish in less than an hour and still feel that I’ve accomplished something for the day.

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On the other hand if I wake up early I go for my 8 mile route.  Took some creative routing to get it up to 8 miles.

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Finally there’s the 16 miler.  I have failed horribly on this route twice.  I get around 13 to 14 miles before I have to walk or rather hobble home.  If I ever hope to run a marathon I need to achieve this first.  I  think I need to work up to it.  But I’m in no rush.

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What is your running regimen?

Conspiracies VII The New world order and conclusions

Difficult to remember but think I came back to my dorm room after classes one November night.  My roommate, Mike, had the TV on and tuned to the local network affiliate.  The Berlin wall was coming down.  Something utterly impossible.  Something that could not be and would never happen in my lifetime had happened and I was totally stunned.  I had no reaction.

 

 

I think it was the same way for many people.  As odd as it sounds a whole way of life, a mindset, an attitude was suddenly all erased and the wheels of history had gone down a different road.  That looming specter of nuclear war that I had pretty much accepted as an inevitability had just vanished in the pop of champagne bottles and fireworks being shot off on top of a wall.  What was left?

I think that we all had to come to terms with the “new reality”.  Some looked at it in a hopeful light and decided that we could now move forward without all the baggage of the last fifty years weighing us down.

Others not so much.

Maybe with that sort of mindset in place they almost welcomed George Bush when about a year later he popularized the phrase “The New World Order” in a speech concerning the course of history now that the Soviet empire had effectively collapsed.

 

New World Order wasn’t a new phrase.  Conspiracy theorists knew it from the beginning of the 20th century when globalists such as HG Wells, Cecil Rhodes, Elihu Root and Woodrow Wilson advocated for the dissolution of national boundaries and the establishment of a planetary governing body.  Globalism became the new nefarious conspiracy to replace international communism.

Previously little known groups such as the Council of Foreign Relations, the Bilderberg group, the Trilateral commission, Bohemian grove, and skull and crossbones suddenly became more and more scrutinized.  The innate secretive nature of these groups just fueled speculation to ridiculous levels.  Now here we are 25 or so years later and we’ve little to no more information on any of these groups or plots.

Then the 90’s brought a series of disturbing incidents and vaguely defined threats to liberty.  Desert Storm, Waco, Ruby Ridge, “clipper chips”.  Certainly pop culture fed the hysteria with shows like The X-files.  Then along came the mismanaged 2000 election with hints of fraud and shortly after that 9/11.

The general level of distrust, the misgivings, the overall respect for governments, and for international bodies such as the UN has plummeted.  The American people are more leery of government and its intentions.  Anything and everything can now be a plot against the general population.  Even the most innocuous of programs such as health care seem to have an ominous edge to them.

Those in power don’t help things.  They seem rather oblivious to the complaints and blindly plunge on.

The general feeling is now that anyone with power or money or both will do what they have to do to maintain or augment that power and money at the expense of others and not just financially but in terms of liberties and individual rights.

What could happen if this type of sentiment is not addressed?  Well in the extreme cases when people get shoved too far it could lead to a violent counter-reaction.  Just look at what happened in countries in the near east when their governments failed to react in a proper and timely manner to the complaints of the great many.  Tunisia, Libya, Egypt, and Syria are great examples.

At the very least it means that more and more of the population will become disillusioned by the political process and take less of an active role in their governments and leave decisions to a smaller number of people.  A sort of twisted self-fulfilling prophecy.

What’s the answer?  More rather than less involvement with the government, real and not just promised transparency in government, a more thoughtful approach to governing that is more reactive to the fears of those that aren’t on the leading edge of change.

I don’t think that conspiracy theories will ever go away entirely but I do think that if we make things more transparent and we have a more reactive government that we may minimize the effect on the general population that they have enjoyed in the last quarter century.

the price

How can my arms feel like both limp spaghetti strands and like lead weights at the same time?

The plan sort of took shape about four years ago.  The general idea was to get back into some sort of shape after decades of neglect.  The first phase which I must say that I’ve thoroughly mastered, was the walking and then running phase.

This was where the heavy work of weight loss was to be done.  For the most part that has been accomplished.  From an all time high of 292 pounds I have reduced down to 184 pounds and still counting.  Right now I am probably at the tail end of what I can accomplish through running.  I will probably continue to lose weight but I won’t be able to garner as much benefit through running anymore.

The second phase, and what has turned out to be the harder phase, the upper body and torso phase began this year.  Exercises to increase muscle mass, exercises to burn fat, exercises to increase flexibility.  So far it hasn’t gone very well.

Let me be clear.  I am not expecting to look like some sort of body builder at the end of this process.  My philosophy behind this fitness plan is somewhat similar to the train of thought that I took when purchasing my Dodge Charger.  I was not looking for a car to go out racing every weekend but at the same time I did want a car that would have the muscle to get around other traffic when and if necessary.  In the same way I don’t expect to be overly muscled at the end of this process but to definitely have the strength and flexibility necessary for whatever eventuality arises.

Unfortunately (or maybe I should say fortunately) you can’t just go out and buy a body like that from a showroom.  You have to be willing to put in the price in both time and sweat.

First I had several abortive attempts to self start the process and those sputtered to a halt after a week or two.  Then after I realized that I needed someone to keep me on course I went looking for a trainer.  Apparently a much harder chore than at first blush.

I found several ads for trainers in the local papers and websites but the offers ranged from fairly clueless people who seemed to know less than I did to die-hard workout fanatics that would have me exercising 24 hours a day.  The local health store manager offered to connect me to a trainer he knew but the trainer never called back.  Finally I got a trainer through a local gym but things didn’t work out after a month.

So I’m almost back to square one.  I know a little more about the process than when I first started and I have made some inroads into forcing myself to work out 4 times a week without excuses but I know that I am all over the place.  I need to be more focused.

The plan right now is to first of all continue working out.  Some sort of exercise is better than nothing after all.  Next to re-double my efforts and find that right guide to get me on track.  Lastly to carry on.

The plan is working.  It’s not going to be one of those overnight success stories but it will succeed.

Rivalries

It’s not the best of years to be an Aggie football fan.  The season has begun to turn sour.  But age puts these things into perspective.  Seasons come and go just as chapters in our lives begin and end and what was a disappointment this year may turn to joy the next.  I rarely let it affect my mood as I once did.  Certainly I’ve lost the fiery passions of my youth with regards to the game over the last twenty years.

I think part of that has to do with the new league that we find ourselves in.  In 2012 we broke with the schools in the Big-12 conference and moved over into the SEC (southeastern conference).  Partly to forge an identity of our own but mostly we moved for monetary reasons.  the reasoning went that we would step out onto the national stage on our own and we would no longer be subjected to constant comparison with our sibling school down the road.

Gone were the old rivalries with Baylor, Tech, and of course texas.  Saturday afternoons in the Fall.  Traditions shared from generation to generation for a century were now gone with the stroke of a pen.

Now we’ve been assigned rivals.  Yes, assigned. The league office announced in 2013 that the University of South Carolina would henceforth be our rivals.  As if they were assigning dance partners for us at some elementary school cotillion.  I hardly know anything about them, certainly nothing that would lead me to believe that I want them to be our rivals.

I look across at the rest of the conference and I have to admit that I find it hard to work up any sort of antagonistic feelings against any of them.  Alabama is the big bully of the conference but I harbor no animosity towards them.  Perhaps it’s because we beat them in our first meeting against them or just simply that Alabama is a good team and I find it hard to find fault with them.  LSU?  We’ve had some run ins with them in the past but we don’t hold much contempt for them.  The rest we really don’t know.  I don’t mean the team statistics.  Any fool can look those up online.  What I mean is that we don’t have a shared history or experience with these schools.  Perhaps with decades to come some sort of rivalries will unfold and to new generations this will seem perfectly natural.

To me it won’t.  Rivalries, whether you perceive them to be good or bad are essentially relationships. Relationships can’t, or at least shouldn’t, be terminated so abruptly.  Bonds exist, bonds that have lasted decades and ought not to be ripped away for considerations such as money or TV ratings.

I still miss those gaudy burnt orange flags, that garish marching band, that ludicrous popgun cannon, that overgrown walking hamburger, and our yearly “family reunion” just after Thanksgiving.

Real world to virtual world comparisons

I suppose it was inevitable.

I was sitting (in a virtual sense) in the East Commonlands in the game Everquest looking for bears, wolves, and giant spiders.  Why?  I needed money, virtual money but money nonetheless.  I needed to buy a piece of armor for my character and killing monsters for a copper piece here, a silver there wasn’t cutting it.  So I was gathering pelts and spider silks in order to auction off to other players and earn enough to buy this armor piece.

That was back around 2000 and I was part of the emerging virtual economy.  An economy that had some real world implications.  For wherever there is a need and a way to pay, there will be commerce.  Some bright spark got the idea that all these make-believe items and make-believe money could be sold online to other players for real world money.  Soon someone worked out an exchange rate, so many platinum pieces per US dollar and suddenly I was part of a nation that had a larger economy than Bulgaria.

Amazingly it had all begun rather organically.  In a fairly unused corner of the game lay an underground tunnel with a large cavern.  Players would sit there and broadcast their items for sale to anyone in the area.  People would meet and exchange the item for virtual money.  Soon dozens of players sat around doing the same.  The game developers took note and set up a more formal auction zone and system.  They still took the position that selling things for real money offline was against the game rules but they really had no way of enforcing this.

Professional “farmers” began cropping up.  These farmers set up game accounts to do nothing but gather raw materials to sell to players or to gather up virtual currency to sell on websites.  Players would set up the deal offline and then meet clandestinely online to receive their goods.

The in-game economics also got skewed.  Some players would hoard things like spider silk or high quality bear pelts, items used to make other in-game items, and artificially inflate the price of these raw materials.  Other players might retaliate and swamp the market with low prices and collapse a market.

The game developers helplessly admonished players not to do this.

I left Everquest around 2004 and took up Warcraft and found that the system first pioneered back in Everquest was fully formed and flourishing in Warcraft.  If anything, it was worse.  You could “buy” a high level and fully equipped character on a website and skip all the training and leveling up.  Of course such people were usually morons when it came to game play but that didn’t stop them.

Farming was worse.  A report in 2011 told of prisoners forced to play games to gather “virtual currency”.  This was getting insane.  It’s just a game!

I have to admit this was one of the reasons that I left online gaming.  It was becoming work and I had nothing to show for the long hard hours spent in-game and now some teen can come in and short-circuit the process and buy his way to the top?

Money.  It ruins everything.

The reason why

Life isn’t merely meant to be survived.  I’ve noticed that attitude among people more and more as I get older.  They just merely want to get through the day and start the next one.  Like some overly complicated maze that we as rats have to run round to get our daily cheese.

Living life this way is damaging.  I don’t care how stress free your life is or how mentally tough you are.  This will damage you over time.  We build up toxic and damaging “mental gunk” in our thought processes.  We unconsciously develop bad mental habits and corrosive attitudes.

Vacations aren’t merely luxuries or a foolish waste of time.  They serve a very real purpose.  Even if it consists merely of sitting on the couch and watching TV for an extended period of time, you need to step back from that routine that you’ve worked out for yourself and you need time to consider.

Consider if this is where you really want to be going in life.  Whether what you’re doing in your life is really the best thing to do or whether you should change your routine.  But mainly you need to unplug and relax.

Consider the mind at work or in its routine as an athlete that gets no rest.  All the time going and going and going.  Like some sort of marathon runner.  Even the most adept and determined runner will hit a wall from time to time and not be able to continue racing.  The results are not pretty.  Recovery is a long and arduous process.

Why then do Americans have such an adversarial relationship with vacations?  We have the shortest vacation time on average of all the industrialized world.  I feel that some people almost feel ashamed of taking time off.  Will the world end if you take some time off?  I can assure you that this ball of rock and metal that we live on won’t fall apart if you take some time off.

So you still need to justify it?  Vacation with a purpose then.  Make it a vacation tailored to meet your relaxing and therapeutic needs.  Take yoga classes, mud baths or massages, learn a new hobby or sport.  Visit a place that you’ve never been before or would normally never go to.

Most of all realize that you weren’t meant to live inside a cubicle or air-conditioned building.

Conspiracies VI

This is the one that everyone talks about.

Possibly the closest thing that we have in American history to compare to the legend of King Arthur or Barbarossa or perhaps even to the expulsion from the garden of Eden.  The story of a golden age in American history brought to a violent end by the murder of a man of legend.  A pivotal point in American and even world history.  People are left wondering what might have been.

A whole industry has cropped up around the assassination of President Kennedy in the last fifty years.  Books, movies, TV specials, that all claim to know the absolute truth and put forward theories as diverse as they are colorful.

The undisputed facts of the case are:

1. Kennedy was shot twice in Dallas.

2., and that he died.

Beyond that, all else is seemingly up for grabs.

Suspects

It seems everyone had a reason to kill Kennedy.  From Fidel Castro, to Cuban right-wing rebels, to the mob, to the CIA, to vice president Johnson, to a group of army generals and wealthy businessmen, to a witch’s curse put on the Kennedy family back in Ireland, and finally to a disgruntled young man who was a failure.

Various sets of “proof” have been put forward by authors, enthusiasts, movie directors all of which seem to solve the case.  However all rely on sketchy evidence, wrong assumptions, and sometimes outright lies.

Gerald Posner tackled some of the more popular theories in his book in his tome “Case Closed” in 1995 as a direct answer to the 1991 Oliver Stone movie “JFK

JFK” itself concerns the theory set forth by a New Orleans district attorney, Jim Garrison, that a cabal set out to murder the president and that Lee Harvey Oswald was put up as a patsy for the murder.

Garrison himself was known to launch cases against public officials and against corruption in New Orleans always trying to land on the front page of the local papers for the sake of his political career.  He ended up prosecuting a local businessman as part of a plot to murder the President.  Garrison was only able to produce unreliable witnesses and speculation.  The case was decided against Garrison in less than fifteen minutes

In the end the case did have a lasting effect as it brought phrases into pop culture such as “magic bullet” and “lone gunman”.  The case would also begin the trend of the general public of doubting and mistrusting the government’s explanations for anything.

Motives

The possible motivations to assassinate the president vary widely and in some cases seem contradictory.

Kennedy had partially left Cuba to Castro.  Operations set in motion in the Eisenhower era such as the invasion of Cuba had been abandoned and hundreds of men were left stranded on a tropical beach to face capture and torture. A large expat Cuban community in South Florida became displeased with the president.  Something that they definitely expressed in the ballot boxes for the next fifty years.  But did they do more?

Castro was no big fan either.  Kennedy had initiated “Operation Mongoose” to subvert Castro’s regime.  Using CIA backed sabotage teams they blew up bridges, burned sugar cane crops and mined harbors.  What made it personal was that Kennedy had his brother Bobby Kennedy run the operation for him.  The Cuban intelligence agency (the Dirección General de Inteligencia) is a world-class agency and certainly had the resources to pull off an assassination.

Vice president Johnson himself was not a happy man.  A career politician, he had become Kennedy’s running mate out of necessity.  A skilled politician, he could get congressional support for any of Kennedy’s policies when necessary but he was looked down upon by most of the Kennedy family and seen as little more than an ill-mannered oaf.  It seems that the only one that personally liked Johnson was president Kennedy himself.

The Kennedy clans’ plans were to have John Kennedy get his two terms and then have Bobby continue the dynasty leaving Johnson out in the cold.  It would be understandable that the vice president might feel ill-used. But was he capable of organizing such a thing?

The mob wasn’t too happy either.  The Kennedy administration had vigorously gone after the mob in the early 60’s and had begun to damage their operations.  Another theory speculates that the Kennedy campaign had reneged on campaign promises made to the mob to help him win the white house in 1960.  Some have speculated that Kennedy had some particular links to the mob in Chicago and that their support in the 1960 election had put Illinois in Kennedy’s camp for the presidential election.

Other mob motives might tie back into the Cuban angle as the mob was very interested in restoring links to a lucrative per-revolution gambling arrangement in Cuba.  Kennedy’s seemingly lax policy on Cuba might have seemed detrimental to their interests.

Lastly it is speculated that a simmering feud between the president’s father Joseph Kennedy and the mob existed from decades past and that this was payback.

The one group most credited is a mix of the CIA, the pentagon, and big business.  It is widely speculated that Kennedy intended to withdraw from Vietnam and to restart nuclear arms talks with the soviets.  The threat of seeming to be weak against communism and the curtailing of “blank check” military spending would be a threat to these parties.

The most far-fetched theory is that a curse was placed on the Kennedy clan due to an ancestor of Kennedy offending a witch in Ireland.  This would take the form of various members of the clan dying violently or ruining their careers.

Lastly we are left with a young man.  A man who had been a failure in most things he had done, a man who was almost totally disregarded by life but who craved attention.  A man who could do only do one thing well.  He could shoot a rifle.

add capacity, add capability

These last few years have been a period of expanding my horizon, shoring up my deficiencies and adding muscle to what I already have.  Hard to say what the overriding motivation has been but the results have been most satisfying.

I’ve had to learn and add new skills to what I could do and learn about things that I never thought I would need to tackle in the past.  The most surprising thing has been that it hasn’t been as hard as I once thought it would be.

For a long time I would not try new things or would not delve deeper into skills and abilities that I already had.  I had grown complacent and content with what I knew.  But one day I looked around and came to the realization that what I knew or what I could do was no longer enough.

People around me, not just younger people but people my own age were passing me by and surpassing me.

“You paint?  when did that happen?”

“you can weld?”

“You know everything about home-refinancing?”

“You can program in Java?”

People around me had a plethora of skills that I never realized that they had and here I was thinking that I knew so much.  Now I’m not saying I’m going to go out and do all these things and master them.  I am however slowly adding to my capabilities and learning more and more.

One reason is that I want to be more self-sufficient and know more about life in general.  Doing things helps me learn about things.  Jumping right in and trying things is a great way to learn.  Another reason is that it keeps me busy and keeps my mind fresh.  Slipping into ruts where you do the same thing year after year is dangerous.

Sure you should have some patterns in your life but don’t get stuck into a fossilized mindset.  Stretch out and try.

 

just do it

A mantra for a popular shoe company or an attitude to live one’s life by?

I was recently talking to someone who had a myriad of options to consider as far as their career including job options in Houston that weren’t quite what they wanted and career options on the east coast that were better but would involve uprooting their lives and moving.  They had been weighing the pros and cons all summer long and now some of the offers were expiring and they had to make a decision.

They asked my opinion.

Firstly this is one of those things I hate opining on as I didn’t know all the ins and outs of this person’s, what their deepest desires are, how they really see their life shaping up and all those other fine details that really make a difference.  So I took a middle of the road approach.

I told them to just pick one and go.  Didn’t really matter which but do it.  Of course they asked what if they chose wrong?  I told them it didn’t matter.  Making a decision was better than no decision when it comes down to it.  Standing around paralyzed with indecision was the worst state to be in.

So they chose to move.  Will it be a good decision?  Yes and no.  I’m sure that there will be ups and downs along the way but this person is young and still has time to grow and learn.  But sitting around and waiting for things to be decided for them, that’s worse.

Whatever you do, take charge of your own life.  Be the one that makes the decisions instead of letting life decide things for you.